I think you just need a little work on the honesty angle. In that it's not so honest it's hurtful. Try passive aggression. Hang around planetside enough, you'll start to get it.
Are you, by the way? Hanging around for a while?
[Complete and total ignoring of this whole admitting of mistakes thing.]
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Are you, by the way? Hanging around for a while?
[Complete and total ignoring of this whole admitting of mistakes thing.]